Dear Ase – thinking of you. This is such sad news. Patti was a joy to know. Always witty and so clear in her thinking. A very positive and amazing woman.

Sincere and heartfelt condolences for all who loved Patti and all whom Patti loved. Such a surprise to learn of her passing.
I had the pleasure of working with Patti at UHN, and so enjoyed her sense of humour.

Patti’s much too short life embodied love for her partner, family, friends, colleagues and community. She was intelligent, political, spiritual, generous and kind. She worked relentlessly to make sense of the world around her. She was a mentor to others, changer of systems, lover of life and laughter. Social worker, teacher, advocate, counselor, author, artist, gardener, traveller and much much more. A bright star in the sky has been dimmed. All who have gone ahead have welcomed Patti with open hearts and arms. We wait to see you again Patti. But we miss you so so much.

Dear friend you will be missed! You inspired me as an example of how to lead with kindness. Your actions left a legacy that will be felt around us for a long time to come xxx

David and Peter,to you and your families,

It has been awhile since we were all together but I just heard about your sister Patti and wanted to reach out and send my sincere condolences to you.
May you be comforted in your many memories and through the support of family and friends.
Very sorry for your loss. It is always hard to lose those we love and care for, so reassuring to know that others care also.

We are so saddend of the passing of Patti. Patti will be sorely missed and we will cherish her and Ase’s friendship forever.

I am deeply saddened to hear of Patti’s passing. My memories of working with Patti are so positive and she was a warm and intelligent advocate for interprofessional care and education. I had the privilege of teaching with Patti many times and always learned so much about compassion and caring. She will be missed by our UofT community.

Patti and I worked together in the late 1980’s. She was wonderful to work with, She was warm and funny as others have said. More importantly, for me, she was a voice for women in abusive situations, working tirelessly to be of assistance to them and also to change the social structures that supported, and still support violence against women.

Patti was a beloved colleague and mentor who made an incredible impact on allied health staff at UHN. She was also a tremendously generous leader with a great sense of humor. Working with Patti was a true privilege. Ase, thinking of you at this difficulty time and sending condolences to your entire family.

Dear Ase and family, I am so sorry to hear the sad news of Patti’s death. She was a much respected colleague, trusted by many to always be kind, supportive and wise. Patti was courageous, never failing to address a difficult situation. I will also remember her lovely smile and ability bring a chuckle to a situation. She touched many people and leaves us with the challenge to always try to do just a bit better. My sincerest condolences to you. Jan Lackstrom

Patti holds a very special place in my heart. My relationship with her resulted in her being a steady and loving presence in the lives of my daughters, Molly and Emily. Her love and influence was a gift to them and I will be forever grateful to her. My very deepest condolences to all who knew and loved her.

I was shocked and saddened to learn of Patti’s passing and my thoughts and prayer are with her family right now. I can’t imagine your loss.

I had the pleasure of working with and reporting to Patti for her last three years at UHN, but her legacy I have carried in my heart and mind and will do so forever.
Patti was the most inspirational leader I ever met, the most compassionate and non-judgmental human being, and an exquisite communicator and faciltator of interpersonal relationships and interprofessional learning. She had an exquisite and curious mind and wasn’t afraid to ask the difficult questions.

I am sending my deepest condolences. The world is a shade dimmer this week without Patti’s light.

Sincerely,
Debbie

Saddened by the passing of our dear friend Patti.
Condolences to Åse and family.
A Macintosh apple tree will grow in Nova Scotia in remembrance of her and her accomplishments in life.

Saddened by the passing of our dear friend Patti.
Condolences to Åse and family.
A Macintosh apple tree will grow in Nova Scotia in remembrance of her and her accomplishments in life.

I am so sorry to hear of Patti’s passing. I remember her invaluable contributions to the Lesbian and Cancers initiatives in the early 2000’s. Sending sincere condolences to her partner and family.

Ase, I am so very sorry. You are in mine and David’s thoughts.

I would like to leave my memories, thoughts and feelings about Patti on this page. I would also like to be able to see the comments that other people leave as it helps me to grieve with others.

I am shocked and saddened to hear of Patti’s death and send my deepest regards of sympathy to her family and friends. I will always remember Patti’s steady, wise and heartfelt mentorship with so much gratitude.